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January 30th, 2014 at 09:45 pm

So...the title loan place called me today to let me know that I could borrow an addition $1900 if I needed it. I politely declined while thinking to myself "you will be paid off soon...why would I add to it?"

Sent email to EX-H about child support. He wants me to drop the case with the state and just let him send me the check each week...apparently it will save him some money from the payroll company. I told him I didn't feel comfortable doing that. That I couldn't trust that he would put the child support above his other debts. I haven't heard from him yet but I imagine I will get a pretty hateful email or phone call. I am standing up for myself instead of letting him walk all over me. He can't bully me into doing anything anymore. I am afraid that he will threaten to drop the kids off his insurance if I don't do it. That would be cutting off his nose to spite his face. Since any plan I could get would be more expensive and he has to pay half of it, he would end up spending more money that he does right now. Hope it doesn't go that far though. Enough rambling...sorry.

Still haven't received all of my tax documents yet. This is the latest I have ever received them. Really can't wait to file and get some of these debts paid off!

Posted in Misc Thoughts and Updates | 6 Comments »

6 Responses to “Yeah Right!”

  1. starfishy Says:
    January 30th, 2014 at 09:55 pm 1391118906
    1391118906

    good for you on both counts!! your decision making skills are always improving, which is awesome. Smile

  2. creditcardfree Says:
    January 30th, 2014 at 10:33 pm 1391121196
    1391121196

    Good for you! If he mentions the health insurance, remind him that it will increase for him. What is the amount the payroll company is charging? I guess that doesn't really matter. If he had shown his ability to be trustworthy in the past he could save that money instead it is his burden to bear.

  3. Looking Forward Says:
    January 31st, 2014 at 12:11 am 1391127115
    1391127115

    Good! Smile

  4. Joanne Says:
    January 31st, 2014 at 12:48 am 1391129331
    1391129331

    Agree , good for you... I would just tell him that I am doing what I need to do , for the kids, and he should too. Good for you for standing firm.

  5. Petunia 100 Says:
    January 31st, 2014 at 01:32 am 1391131968
    1391131968

    Good for you. Smile

  6. Petunia in a Flower Garden Says:
    January 31st, 2014 at 05:47 am 1391147224
    1391147224

    You go girl! Hold him accountable!

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