I need some advise. I took this week off of my second job. I realized how burnt out I really am. I am afraid that I don't think I can continue to do this and take care of my mom and sister. With this in mind, I worked out my budget through mid Aug without this income. By reducing the amount I pay on the LOC(still paying over the minimum but not as much as I do now) it is very tight but doable, if I get my ex dh to commit to paying toward DD rent each month(he hasn't missed a month yet so I don't think it will be a problem). There is also a possible scenario that goes like this...I am paying $250 a month on medical bills for DD. The balance is just over 2k. I could take out the money from the LOC and pay that off and have that additional money each month. The thing that I am worried about is that if I find I can't live without this income, I won't get such a sweet position that works so well with my first job again. So if I make this decision, it will be a final decision.
It is times like this that I miss my dad. He would know what to do. And he would support me no matter what.
Need Advise
May 14th, 2016 at 02:20 am
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May 14th, 2016 at 02:27 pm 1463236059
Fear is the mind killer. Animals give into their fear, but humans overcome it.
such a sweet position that works so well with my first job again.
1. Have you spoken to the supervisor about fewer hours? Or 3 weeks "on" and 1 week "off"? IOW, more flexible hours. Maybe you have, but haven't told us.
2. You found one sweet position; you can find another.
my dad. He would know what to do.
That's not very feminist!!!
May 14th, 2016 at 06:46 pm 1463251604
May 15th, 2016 at 12:30 pm 1463315407
So maybe this means putting boundaries on helping your sister( ex. You can do an errand for her when you are doing one for yourself-- not a day you worked 2 jobs) . Are there services that could help your mom? Can your daughter help her aunt? I'm sorry your dad is not there for advice anymore. Best of luck to you!
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I would stay with the part time job until the medical is paid off, then see where you are and how you feel. Sometimes we just get overwhelmed for a while and then it passes. With your debt history, I'd really hesitate to add more the line of credit, because that could rapidly become a bad habit.
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