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August 13th, 2009 at 02:12 pm

Well...after many months of no power disconnect notice on the door...I came home to one last night! I failed to call and make arrangements to pay the bill on Friday. Yesterday was only 1 day outside of the grace period!!! I thought for sure it would be okay until the 14th! They usually wait until the 18th to send someone(isn't it sick how I know that!) But I got online last night and did a e-check online. Now I am just hoping that it doesn't hit my account until tomorrow.

DH is still on the couch. We had a pretty heated discussion last night. I just don't see his point and he doesn't see mine. Neither of us are willing to cave. This latest round of issues is because he couldn't get in touch with me for an hour while I was at my friends house and I failed to tell him I was going there. He has major trust issues and I have had it! He actually hinted last night that I should give up myy friend. He said that he gave up his friends in order to not cause problems between us. Sick...right! My friend is a little pushy and overwhelming, but I have tried to distance myself from that part of her. I haven't seen her in almost a month and don't talk to her like I used to. BUt giving her up completely would be very hard.

Anyway..that is where we are at right now. The Great Divide.

4 Responses to “Uh Oh”

  1. Broken Arrow Says:

    Um, sorry to hear that. I think having trouble with even the power bill speaks volumes about the level of intensity and pressure you guys must be in.

    So, because I am nosy, how come he wasn't able to get in contact with you for an hour? You don't have to answer if you don't want to. I'm just a nosy bystander.

    But please do take care.

  2. North Georgia Gal Says:

    broken...my cell phone was dead.

  3. frugaltexan75 Says:

    Umm... why did he give up his friends? Why should you have to give up your friends?

  4. Broken Arrow Says:

    Oh, well, that doesn't sound like a big deal at all. Things like that happen. So, was he upset after you explained that to him? I guess he is if he's sleeping on the couch. So, I suspect that perhaps there was a lot more stress and fights than this, and this is just the straw that broke the camel's back?

    Also, I don't think it's reasonable for him to demand that you give up your friends. But, I also think that's not what is really bothering him. I guess I'm getting only one side, but I agree that he is not acting rationally.... But unless he's always been irrational, I suspect there's more to this... and it's not my place to pry.

    Yeah, so, please take care. I hope you guys can work things out for the better.

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